Niceness as a career path

Subject: Niceness as a career path
From: Mark Dempsey <mxd2 -at- OSI -dot- COM>
Date: Fri, 14 Aug 1998 07:45:19 -0700

Recent posts decry the lack of niceness, presence of flaming, etc. On
behalf of rude people everywhere, I write.

1. If you want a career in tech writing, or in animal husbandry for that
matter, you will, from time to time encounter jerks. If you want a
career path without jerks, well...sorry, wrong planet.

2. If you don't tell them where it's tied up, they can't get your goat.
Taking offense is strictly (100%) up to the offendee.

3. Being "nice" in the sense of being an insipid doormat is absolutely
detrimental to any career advancement. Many times being "nice" is really
being a victim, being phony, etc...Be suspicious of niceness! You are
tech writers, not doormats for hire!

This from a fellow (me) who once sold real estate:
Suggested strategy for dealing with jerks: Hold a contest for the
biggest jerk. As I would encounter them when cold calling, I'd listen,
thinking "Okay, you're in the top ten, do you want to go for number
one?"

BTW, I'm *not* suggesting you confront every jerk. Ignoring them works
much better.

Yours, in the quest for better mental health,


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